Tag Archive: mistake in giving advice

Oct 23

Effective Communication: Knock Before Entering Don’t Give Advice Before You Do This One Thing—Part 2

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So you already know that one of the key skills of giving advice is Ask or Have. That is, either Ask Permission to give advice or Have an Invitation. (You can read the first part this article here: Part 1.) That being said, there is a skillful and less skillful way to Ask Permission. Sometimes …

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Jun 26

The Art Of Giving Advice – Part 2

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In part two of The Art Of Giving Advice, we’ll take a look at four critical errors that are often made in the name of offering advice. Critical Advice Giving Mistake #1: Discounting “You shouldn’t feel that way” is an excellent way to shut down a conversation, cause people emotional pain and undermine relationships. Critical Advice Giving Mistake …

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