Tag Archive: Bernard Uzi Weingarten

Jan 28

Wisdom Nugget-A Key to Effective Communication:Listen First

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by Bernard Uzi Weingarten   Ever wonder how to really help somebody when they come to you for advice? This story of a conversation I had with Sam, a long-time friend, illustrates one of the important keys of skillful, effective communication. Sam was telling me about his strained relationship with his brothers. “They keep me at …

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Sep 23

Effective Communication:Knock Before Entering Before You Give Advice Be Sure To Do This One Thing–Part 1

Knock before entering

Imagine that you enter somebody’s home, and that you do so without being invited and without asking if you can enter. Your presence wouldn’t be very welcome, would it? And your relationship with the people living there would be damaged. I don’t know many people who literally enter another person’s home in that manner (except …

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Aug 25

When Interrupting is Effective Communication

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 We have all been taught that interrupting is rude and impolite. But that is not always the case. There are times when interrupting is both appropriate and effective, provided it is done skillfully. One such situation is when people are ‘circling’, that is, repeating the same information again and again and not adding anything new. …

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